Archive for October, 2006

Ten Reasons for the Failing of American Marriages

Friday, October 20th, 2006

or

    Ten Reasons for American Divorce

After the first two they are in no particular order (because it is hard to say which ones are more frequent).

1

    Taking God out of the Family

When God is taken out of the equation of marriage, the end result is a house built on sand. Some might stand, if the storms aren’t too bad. Most, however, will fall to simple waves. Marriages like this might work if other things are met, especially commitment, and proper authority, but throw any of the other causes for failed marriages into the mix and you are unlikely to withstand even the smallest storm. “Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh [but] in vain.” Psl 271:1 .

2

    Lack of Commitment

It is not uncommon these days to see people conisidering relationships temporary. People date one person after the other, supposedly seeking “true love” or “the right fit”. People think nothing of enjoying sexual relations with those they date so flippantly. This temporary relationship is not only damaging to those who engage in them (emotional upheavals!) but to the marriages of those who have engaged in it (and those who didn’t, but who are watching it happen all around and thinking it normal). When marriage is seen as something that can be entered into and escaped from on a whim, it happens more and more. This is directly contradictory to the Word’s expectation of marriage. “Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Mat 19:6 .

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Testing this Theme…

Friday, October 20th, 2006

I don’t think that I can edit this template. And so it will likely not be around long, as I need to remove the words about Spain… this blog has nothing to do with Spain! lol

Well I will be thinking about the template for a day or so. But this is still Meg Logan’s Blog.

What do you think of it?

Mrs Meg Logan

The Compacting Commitment

Tuesday, October 17th, 2006

Seems like there is a new “phenomenon” hitting the blogoshpere, and life in general. Those people who have plenty, and are wasting it on trinkets, and splurges and eating out all the time, are taking a “Compacting Commitment”. This is what they are pledging to do

In light of the destructive effects of personal greed, we pledge to curb our purchases, cease frivolous buying, and choose to simplify our lives. Excepting only those things needed for work and the health and safety of our families, we pledge not to buy new. Further more, we will actively seek to pass on possessions we no longer want to those who are in need. In doing so, we hope to educate both friends and family about the corrosive effects of being in a constant state of want, nurture in ourselves the uplifting state of giving, thus reducing the load on the environment and creating a more sensible path for our lives. For these reasons, we join the Compact.

- Aaron Highe at the SF site (paraphrased)


This is not a Christian pledge, and the pledge mentions nothing of God, but frugality and good stewardship is a godly perspective.

It’s great that people are doing this. Funny too, since I have been doing this since I married. When you don’t have any money for those extras, it’s pretty easy to learn how to be frugal. Now I’m very frugal, even though we have extra money. My husband is a wise financial planner, and he makes sure that we give to God’s purposes in abundance. He is a blessing to me that is for sure.

Anyone else out there trying to cut back and stop the greedy wasteful purchasing? It really is a blessing when we are faithful with our finances. There are more verses in scripture about money than there are any other single topic pertaining to life. (Or so I’ve heard.) Money is important, and the stewarding of God’s money is important. And it is ALL His money.


Check out these verses for some helpful starting points regarding mindful spending, and just how God views “our” money.


Mat 6:19-21 “Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”


Mar 12:41-44 (not quoted here because of length.) The paraphrase of which is that while rich people give of their abundance, poor people who give of their lack are more blessed. It isn’t how much you give, but how much you sacrifice to do it.


Job 41:11 “Who hath prevented me, that I should repay [him? whatsoever is] under the whole heaven is mine.” (God owns everything!)


Psa 24:1 [[A Psalm of David.]] The earth [is] the LORD’S, and the fulness thereof; the world, and they that dwell therein. (again the whole earth and everyone and everything thereon are God’s.)

Folks it isn’t your money! Even beyond your tithe, there is more that is God’s, ALL of it is.

This one is plain as day!


Luk 16:10-13 “He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much. If therefore ye have not been faithful in the unrighteous mammon, who will commit to your trust the true [riches]? And if ye have not been faithful in that which is another man’s, who shall give you that which is your own?”


Well, think on it people. It’s beyond time to get our finances in order. To return to being good and faithful stewards of what God has so graciously given us. Whether you have a little or a lot, you ought to remember it is ALL God’s and He is entrusting you with proper managment of it. Just remember the parables of the talents, the master gave three servants different sums. Some of you may have been given alot, some very little and some a modest amount. But even the one with little was expected to multiply it, and to care for it well, as the master would have. In the future (if you are saved by Christ) we will one day be rewarded according to our deeds. Let your reward be wondeful, don’t be like the servant who hoarded the talent.


Signing off,

Mrs. Meg Logan

The Wonder of an Apron

Tuesday, October 17th, 2006

I have been thinking about making an apron for months, possibly a year now. You see, I can’t find any that I like, the ones that you can buy with the simple top bib and a bottom smock, are really really! boring to me. I have one, I rarely wear it. It never fits right. It doesn’t make me feel feminine, or like a House Keeper. It is just BLAH. (Here is a link to a BBQ or common apron so you know what I am talking about.)

I really want a feminine full cover apron like the ones from Little House on the Prairie. A half cover apron like June Cleaver’s would be acceptable too, as long as they are gathered and feminine. These aprons are really nice, I call them half cover, because the skirt part is short. A full cover to me is one that goes to the top of ankle boots, and covers your whole skirt. Since I mostly wear pants these days, I will probably make a half cover apron first.

Here is an article by Maggie at Hill Billy Housewife, about the virtue of aprons.

I think perhaps today I will gather up some material and make an apron. How hard can it be really??

Mrs. Meg Logan

Well My Parents are Gone! *pout*

Thursday, October 12th, 2006

Our weekend went by in a blink. But I think both of my parents got a good fill of their grandkids.

My parent’s generosity was overwhelming, and I am still coming down from the snacking high! LOL We ate wonderful steaks which my father so lovingly prepared on the grill, and some fantastic french toast which I made on my new griddle. Why do I have a new griddle? Well, because right before my parents came to visit, my stove and oven kicked the bucket. HA! what a great way to cook for company! We went out and got a griddle to cook on temporarily until we decide when and what to replace the old stove with.

The kids’ got some new clothes and my son got some toys, but he has only seen one toy so far. I don’t like to overwhelm him with things during visits, as it makes him quite bratty, and demanding. I got a new griddle, and some pilates DVD’s, I mean it generally felt like Christmas around here!

Speaking of Christmas, we will be going up to visit them around then, and I am so excited.

All in all, the time was well spent, in fellowship with one another, playing Spades, and talking about what God is doing in our lives. We had a few good Bible Studies, and my parents attended our new church with us. They seemed to really like it, and thought it was a wholesome church, which satisfies me deeply.

Can’t wait to get back into the swing of blogging.
See you all in my next post, soon!

Mrs Meg Logan